Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Please Pray
Comments
So Eric and I have both recently acknowledged that most of what makes this whole blog thing fun... is the comments! So to our faithful commenter's... (yes, even those of you whose opinion we don't always appreciate).. Ahem... (John Moran)... we say "thank you"!
As far as the rest of you stalkers go... SPEAK UP!! Click on the comment button below and contribute to the random (and sometimes useless), conversations! We love hearing from you and it definitely motivates us to keep the updates coming! (Whether you want them or not!!) :)
And speaking of you, John Moran... PLEASE don't miss my reply to your "anonymous" comment in my previous Shopping Turmoil post. I have to have the last word on this one. :)
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Cicadas and Garage Sales
Disgusted yet? They are loud and gross and crunchy and when they come... they are EVERYWHERE!! But they are not here.... yet. And for that, I am so very grateful.
Now I can't go and compliment the great state of Indiana without also voicing a complaint in one particular area: Garage Sales.
Two years ago at this time I was making out like a bandit in the city of Reno. For several weeks I faithfully got up around 6am and scoured every corner of town looking for the junk of another, that would inevitably become my treasure. I found baby clothes that had never been worn for a quarter, a $5 coffee table, a barely used jogging stroller and hiking pack. I felt there truly could be no greater satisfaction in life than to find much needed treasure in beautiful condition and pay 2% of the original price. Life was good.
And then I moved to Indianapolis. As the winter months passed I found myself more and more excited... anticipating the incredible "finds" that would be waiting for me this season. Our new home needs so many things and I couldn't wait to show Eric my thrifty side!
News Flash: one man's "junk" in Indiana... is pretty much just that - "junk" - no matter who it belongs to. No "treasures" here... not one. I was sure that the first week was just an "off" weekend. "Too early in the season", I told myself... give it another week. This past Saturday I even got my husband psyched up for our big "Saturday Morning Garage Sale Date!". I dragged him out of bed at 6:30am (OK.... he was up first). First priority was, of course, Starbucks. With my Grande Caramel Macchiato in hand, it was on to the huge school community sale down the road! Can't go wrong with huge community sales right?
Wrong.
For the first couple hours, we refused to give up. When one town turned up with nothing... we moved on. We wound up an hour from home in the end... and all we had to show for it was a half a tank less of gas. Eric tried to explain to me that things are different here. While the true "hillbilly" culture dwells quite a bit south of our home... it would appear that the mentality has a way of filtering north. I lost hope when I arrived at a driveway and found a man selling only three things: a lawnmower that appeared to be 20 years old, a rusty piece of equipment I couldn't even identify, and a box of used bras - only 25 cents a piece. *sigh*
Defeated, we drove to Sears and debated which grill to buy. At least the Memorial Day Weekend sale offered $50 off.
My head tells me it is time to give up. But my heart tells me that even in Indiana, there must be some wasteful and overindulgeous people who want to get rid of perfectly good stuff! I may have to give it one more shot this next Saturday. I just can't resist the "possibility"... and I'm not ready to give up hope. I'm pretty sure Eric's hope left him around 8:30am last Saturday though, so I'll probably be on my own for this one.
Friday, May 18, 2007
Allergies?
So when I was a kid... I know I had some sort of allergies to something. I know they must have been significant because I vividly remember the reward I received following the allergy shot my mom would give me.
A handful of carob chips and raisins.
Yep... carob chips.
Funny how I can't for the life of me EVER recall any problems or symptoms that I suffered from. (Maybe mom can enlighten us all.) But one thing is for sure... I'll never forget the reward. For awhile I believe I truly did look forward to dipping my hand into that big 2 gallon bucket that at one time held sherbert (talk about a treat!), and pulling out as many carob chips and raisins my little hand could hold. That is, until the day I discovered chocolate two doors down at Susie's house. My best friend had it all... warm cookies after school... Capri Sun... and chocolate. Gradually (and behind my mom's back), I was introduced to the "good stuff"!
I know my mom had the best of intentions... but did you know that they actually feed carob to DOGS as treats?! Enough said.
So after a good 20 years or so completely free of any allergies whatsoever... I now am suddenly a frequent user of Claritin D. Apparently central Indiana is one of the worst locations when it comes to allergies... and I have learned of several people who even grew up in the midwest (as I did)... moved away... and then returned specifically to central Indiana, who now suffer from this seasonal nuisance.
It can only mean one thing:
Mom, I'm not falling for it this time. When you come to visit, don't be bringing any carob chips. I want the real thing.
Monday, May 14, 2007
Shopping Turmoil
This post is a little belated since it occurred a couple days ago... but I have to share this problem I have developed since this thing called "marriage" happened to me. Prior to getting married... I loved - let me say it again loved to shop. Well, I married a man who is very wise in his handling of money. I wouldn't go so far to call him unbearably frugal... because I have found in many situations that a little charming persuasion on my part can convince him to dish out the cash on random occasions. However, one of the biggest marital adjustments for Eric has been the acceptance that women just cost more than men. That's the bottom line! I don't go out hoping to drop $140 at the hair salon... they just don't give us any choice!! Men can buy a pair of underwear for $5 and be done with it. Women on the other hand, cannot stop there. (Well, we could but it's really not pretty)... Nope, we have to purchase bras in addition to our underwear! And do you know how much THOSE cost! I'm not talking about the ones at Walmart that wouldn't even hold a golf ball up... if you want a bra worth wearing you have to drop another $45-$60!!
So back to my original story. Since I got married, I have developed this guilt complex that seems to follow me no matter where I go. From Target to the Gap... I can't win. I wander around these stores doing what used to be my favorite activity... and no matter what I look at... I FEEL him. It's actually kind of creepy and beyond frustrating!! But Eric is there... right on my shoulder asking me why I really need that t-shirt when the ones I wore 5 years ago still maintain a little bit of their original shape. Now to Eric's defense... he really has never scolded me on any purchases I have made. And I know that in most cases, returning home with a few clothing items in tow would produce little more than a teasing remark of my overflowing closet and the true need for the items I bought. But it doesn't seem to matter... he's always there. Like that little obnoxious angel on your shoulder that always tries to convince you to do the right thing. Sometimes, you just want to be bad ya know?!
Which brings me to that little devil that also seems to whisper those words of rebellion. Meet my friend, Jessica. OK, OK, Jessica is far from a little devil in reality. She's one of my favorite people in the world in fact! But she is Eric's worst nightmare when it comes to shopping influence!!! :) Jess came out to visit me a couple months ago and did an excellent job of talking me into blocking out guilt complex a little bit. Since she has left, the battle continues to rage when I am out and about... but this past week I had a breakthrough!!
When Eric and I were in Tennessee we visited some outlet malls. In one store, Eric commented that I would look nice in a little sundress... (I know, I was shocked too). So shocked in fact, that I didn't take him seriously and wrote it off... commenting only that "we really should save money and I don't need a thing"! (Reverse psychology - a very good tactic I have picked up on in the last 9 months or so). Fast forward about a week when I was picking up a Mother's day gift at the mall. I heard my name being called from across the street. I looked up, and there was Ann Taylor Loft... (I swear... she was calling me!). It is so hard to resist a visit with an old friend when you haven't seen them for so long... and I didn't want to be rude... so I popped in for a quick "hello". As soon as I walked in the door, I saw them. 2 adorable sundresses. At first, the guilt told me not even to try them on... then promptly, Jessica was there on my other shoulder telling me to "go for it" and reassuring me that I have been really good for so long. And then my mind went back to Tennessee... "he HAD said I should get a little sundress"...
Within 10 minutes I had been liberated. The dresses looked pretty good! Ann Taylor promised 10% off if I opened an account (of course I will promptly cancel)... and I was walking out the door with BOTH sundresses in hand!! (OK and maybe a cute little tank top as well)... Thank you Ann... thank you Jess... and thank you Eric for the idea!!!
I will save the discussion that ensued when I returned home and sweetly reminded Eric of our discussion in Tenn. and how he thought I needed a little something... He's still a little puzzled as to how A sundress meant 2 of them and a shirt... But hey! I'll admit it... I'm kind of a "give me and inch and I'll take a mile" kind of girl these days. It's all of that pent up shopping anxiety!! Maybe I need therapy.
Friday, May 11, 2007
Smoky Mountain Get-Away
The view!
Smoky Mountain Get-Away II
Weekend of Showers
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Hypothesis, Variables & Literature Reviews
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
The Classics
Get the kleenex ready! These are the BEST!!
Well... here's the one that I'll never get tired of watching... It has everything... from those expressive eyebrows, the backwards wave and the tongue roll! I took this video about a month before he died. Elmo was a present for his 1st Birthday. I figured we had spent enough time playing with him in Target... might as well bring him home. Enjoy - it's priceless.
And for those of you who may not know about Ricky... click on the link to the left. You will find our story there...
(click on the arrow in the center)